February is Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month: Empowering Teens to Build Healthy Relationships

Every February, we observe Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month (TDVAM), a time to reflect on the importance of fostering healthy relationships and raising awareness about the dangers of teen dating violence (TDV). According to studies, 1 in 3 teens will experience some form of dating abuse, and the effects can be long-lasting, impacting their emotional well-being and future relationships. It's crucial that we come together as a community to educate teens, parents, and adults about the signs of TDV, how to prevent it, and how to support those who may be experiencing it. 

TDVAM PSA

What is Teen Dating Violence? 

Teen Dating Violence is defined as a pattern of abusive behaviors used to exert control and power over a dating partner. It can affect anyone, regardless of gender, race, or sexual orientation, and it often starts in subtle ways. Teen dating violence can manifest in various forms, including physical, emotional, sexual, or digital abuse. 

Types of Teen Dating Violence (TDV) 

1. Physical Abuse 
   Physical abuse involves hitting, slapping, pushing, or any other form of physical harm. It may also include damaging property or using weapons to intimidate or harm the partner. 

1. Emotional/Verbal Abuse 
   Emotional or verbal abuse is often less visible, but just as damaging. It includes name-calling, insults, humiliation, constant criticism, and manipulating the partner's emotions to create dependency and fear. 

1. Sexual Abuse 
   Sexual abuse involves any non-consensual sexual act or behavior. This could include forced sex, coercion, or using guilt or threats to pressure the partner into sexual activity. 

1. Digital Abuse 
   Digital abuse has become more prevalent with the rise of social media and smartphones. It can include stalking, sending harmful messages, spreading rumors online, or using technology to control or monitor the partner's actions. 

1. LGBTQIA+ 

Threatening to “out” someone, referring to their partner as their “dead name” or wrong pronouns, withholding hormones, binding material etc. 

Signs of Teen Dating Violence 

Recognizing the signs of teen dating violence can be challenging, especially for young people who may not fully understand what a healthy relationship looks like. However, there are key red flags to watch for: 

• Isolation: A partner who limits a teen’s social circle, discourages friendships, or controls where they go and who they talk to. 

• Jealousy or possessiveness: Overly controlling behaviors, such as checking phones, monitoring social media, or accusing a partner of cheating without cause. 

• Excessive criticism: Constantly belittling, name-calling, or making the partner feel worthless. 

• Fear of their partner: A teen may express fear or anxiety about making their partner angry or upsetting them. 

• Physical signs: Unexplained bruises or injuries, especially if a teen becomes defensive or avoids talking about them. 

If you notice these signs in a teenager you know, it’s important to address the situation with care, providing support and connecting them with trusted resources. 

Resources for Students, Parents, and the Community 

This February, as we observe Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month, we will be sharing helpful resources for students, parents, and the wider community. These resources will help teens understand what healthy relationships look like, offer tips on how to spot red flags, and provide guidance on how to get help if they or someone they know is facing dating violence. 

We encourage students, parents, teachers, and community members to follow along with us throughout the month. Together, we can create an environment where teens feel safe, supported, and empowered to make positive choices in their relationships. 

Stay tuned, and follow us on Instagram for more resources, educational materials, and tips on how to support Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month! 

If you’re interested in learning more about the kNOw MORE program or would like to bring us to your school or community event, please feel free to reach out. Let’s work together to empower youth and build a community of healthy, respectful relationships. 

Join us in spreading awareness and breaking the silence on teen dating violence. Together, we can make a difference!